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Islam and Domestic Violence
By Hassan El-Najjar
Khutba for Friday Prayer,
25 Safar, 1430, February 20, 2009
(Al-Room, 30.21)
And of His signs: He has created for you from yourselves mates with whom
you find rest , and He ordained between you love and mercy . In this,
there are signs for people who ponder .
(Al-Room, 30.21)
4.1 . O
mankind!
Be
careful of your duty to your Lord Who created you from a single soul and
from it created its mate and from them has spread a multitude
of men and women.
(Al-Nisssa, 4: 1)
ۡٔ ٱۡۖ ۡ
۬ ٱۡ ٱٓ ٱۡۖ
ۡ ٰ ۡۡۖ ۡ ۡ
ۡ ۡ ٱۚ ٱ
ٱٲ ٱۡ
(2: 222)
They ask thee concerning women's courses. Say:
They are a hurt and a pollution; so keep away from women in their
courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when
they have purified themselves, ye may approach them in any manner,
time or place ordained for you by Allah. for Allah loves those who
turn to Him constantly and He loves those who keep themselves pure
and clean. (2: 222)
ٓۡ ۡ۬ ۡ ۡ ۡۡ ٰ ۡۡۖ
ۡۚ ٱ ٱ ٱۡٓ
ڪ ٰۗ ٱۡۡ
(Al-Baqara,
2: 223) Your wives
are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will.
but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah, and
know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter) and give (these)
good tidings to those who believe. (Al-Baqara, 2: 223)
ٰٓ ٱ ۡ
ٱٓ ۡ۬ǝۖ ۡ ۡ
ۡ ٓ ۡ ٓ ۡ ٰ۬
۬ۚ ٱۡۡۚ ۡ
ٰٓ ۡ ۡٔ۬ ۡ ٱ ۡ۬
ڪ۬
O ye who believe! ye are forbidden to inherit
women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye
may take away part of the dower ye have given them,― except where they have
been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of
kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them, it may be that ye dislike
a thing and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good.
(Al-Nissa, 4: 19)
ٱ ٲ ٱٓ
ٱ ۡۡ ٰ ۡ۬ ٓ ۡ ۡٲۡۚ
ٱٰٰ ٰٰ ٰٰ۬ ۡۡ
ٱۚ ٱٰ ٱۡ
ٱۡ ٱۡۖ ۡ ۡڪۡ ۡ
ۡ ۗ ٱ ۬ ڪ۬
(Al-Nissa,
4: 34)
Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given
the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from
their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard
in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those
women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them
(first), (next), refuse to share their, beds (and last) beat them (lightly);
but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance):
for Allah is Most High, Great (above you all).
(Al-Nissa,
4: 34)
ۡ ۡۡ ۡ ٱۡ
۬ ۡ ۡۦ ۬ ۡ ۡٓ ٓ
ٰۡ۬ ٱ ۡٓۗ ٱ
۬
(Al-Nissa,
4: 35)
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Divorce:
ۡ ۡ ٱ ٱٰۡ
ٱ
ٰٓ ٱ ۡ
ٱٓ ۡ ٱۡۖ
ٱ ٱ ڪۡۖ ۡ ۢ
ۡۡ ٓ ۡ ٰ۬ ۬ۚ
ۡ ٱۚ ٱ ۡ
ۡ ۥۚ ۡ ٱ ۡ ۡ ٲ ۡ
ۡ ۡ
ۡ ۡ ۡ۬ ۡ ۡ ۡ۬
ۡ ٱٰ ۚ ٲڪۡ ۦ
ۡ ٱ ٱۡۡ ٱۡۚ
ٱ ۡ ۥ ۡ۬
ۡۡ ۡ ۡ ۡۚ
ۡ ٱ ۡ ۥۤۚ ٱ
ٰ ۡۦۚ ۡ ٱ ۡ۬ ۡ۬
ٱٰٓٔ ٮٕۡ ٱۡ
ٓٮٕۡ ٱۡۡۡ ٰ ۡ۬
ٱٰٓٔ ۡ ۡۚ ٰ ٱۡۡ
ۡ ۡۚ ٱ ۡ ۥ
ۡ ۡۦ ۡ۬
ٲ ۡ ٱ ۥۤ ۡۡۚ
ٱ ۡ ۡ ٔۦ ۡۡ
ۥۤ ۡ
ۡ ۡ ۡ
ۡۡ ٓ ۡۚ
ٰ ۡ۬ ۡ ٰ ۡ
ۡۚ ۡ ۡۡ ۡ ٔ ۖ
ۡ ۡ ۡ۬ۖ ۡۡ
ۡ ۥۤ ٰۡ
Al-Talaq (65) In the name of Allah, the Beneficent,
the Merciful
O Prophet! when ye do divorce women, divorce them
at their prescribed periods, and count (accurately), their
prescribed periods: and fear Allah your Lord: and turn them not out
of their houses, nor shall they (themselves) leave, except in case
they are guilty of some open lewdness. Those are limits set by
Allah: and any who transgresses the limits of Allah, does verily
wrong his (own) soul: thou knowest not if perchance Allah will bring
about thereafter some new situation. (1)
Thus when they fulfil their term appointed,
either take them back on equitable terms or part with them on
equitable terms; and take for witness two persons from among you,
endued with justice, and establish the evidence (as) before Allah.
Such is the admonition given to him who believes in Allah and the
Last Day. And for those who fear Allah, He (ever) prepares a way out
(2)
And He provides for him
from (sources) he never could imagine. And if anyone puts his trust
in Allah, sufficient is (Allah) for him. For Allah will surely
accomplish His purpose: verily, for all things has Allah appointed a
due proportion. (3)
Such of your women as
have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the prescribed
period, if ye have any doubts, is three months, and for those who
have no courses (it is the same): for those who carry (life within
their wombs) their period is until they deliver their burdens: and
for those who fear Allah, He will make their path easy. (4)
That is the Command of Allah
which He has sent down to you: And if anyone fears Allah He will
remove his ills from him, and will enlarge His reward. (5)
Let the women live (in 'iddah) in the same
style as ye live, according to your means: annoy them not, so as to
restrict them. And if they carry (life in their wombs), then spend
(your substance) on them until they deliver their burden: and if
they suckle your (offspring), give them their recompense: and take
mutual counsel together, according to what is just and reasonable.
And if ye find yourselves in difficulties let another woman suckle
(the child) on the (father's) behalf. (6)
Hadeeth:
Statistics about domestic
violence in the US:
Intimate Partner Violence
and Age of Victim, 1993-99
Provides estimates of violence by intimates (current or former
spouses, girlfriends, and boyfriends) against females with an emphasis
on victim's age, 1993-99. Included are 1999 rates of intimate partner
violence against females overall, rates for specific violent crimes
(rape/sexual assault, robbery, aggravated assault and simple assault),
and 1993-1999 trends in fatal and nonfatal intimate partner violence.
Also presented are 1993-99 aggregate rates of intimate partner violence
by victim's age focusing further on victim's race, Hispanic origin,
annual household income and marital status. Additional statistics on
domestic violence provided include the percentage of same-sex intimate
partner violence, presence of weapons, injuries to victims, type of
intimates who offend, and reporting to police. The data for this report
are drawn from the NCVS and the FBI's Supplementary Homicide Reports.
Highlights include the following:
- Intimate partners murdered 1,218 women during
1999. From 1993 to 1999 intimates killed 45% of all female murder
victims age 20-24.
- Women separated from their husbands were
victimized by an intimate at rates higher than married, divorced,
widowed, or never married women.
- Women age 35-49 were the most vulnerable to
intimate murder, while females age 16 to 24 were the most vulnerable
to nonfatal violence.
http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/abstract/ipva99.htm
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US: Soaring Rates of Rape and Violence Against Women
More Accurate Methodology Shows Urgent Need for Preventive Action
Human Rights Watch December 18, 2008
The numbers in this survey show an alarmingly high rate of sexual
violence in this country. This should serve as a wake-up call that more
must be done to address the problem in the US.
Sarah Tofte, researcher for the US Program at Human Rights Watch
(New York, December 18, 2008) -
A new government
report
showing huge increases in the incidences of domestic violence, rape, and
sexual assault over a two-year period in the United States deserves
immediate attention from lawmakers and the incoming administration,
Human Rights Watch said today. The statistics show a
42-percent increase in reported domestic
violence and a 25-percent increase in the reported
incidence of rape and sexual assault.
The National Crime Victimization Survey, based on projections from a
national sample survey, says that at least 248,300 individuals were
raped or sexually assaulted in 2007, up from 190,600 in 2005, the last
year the survey was conducted. The study surveyed 73,600 individuals in
41,500 households. Among all violent crimes, domestic violence, rape,
and sexual assault showed the largest increases. Except for simple
assault, which increased by 3 percent, the incidence of every other
crime surveyed decreased.
"The numbers in this survey show an alarmingly high rate of sexual
violence in this country," said Sarah Tofte, researcher for the US
Program at Human Rights Watch. "This should serve as a wake-up call that
more must be done to address the problem in the US."
The projected number of violent crimes
committed by intimate partners against women increased from 389,100 in
2005 to 554,260 in the 2007 report. By comparison, the
number of violent crimes against men by intimate partners went down.
"Domestic violence is often a hidden crime, and these numbers are a
stark reminder of how serious and widespread this problem is," said
Tofte. "The Obama-Biden administration should make prevention and
protection against all forms of domestic and sexual violence a top
priority."
The National Crime Victimization Survey is conducted every two years,
with data gathered in phone calls made to a sample of households across
the United States. Due to criticism from experts in the subject, the
survey's methodology was adjusted in 2007 to capture more accurately the
incidence of gender-based violence. The authors say in the report that
the higher numbers may reflect the new, more accurate methodology rather
than an actual increase. Two major shifts were to describe types of
sexual assault to those being interviewed, and to replace
"computer-assisted telephone interviews conducted from two telephone
centers" nationwide with interviews "by field representatives either by
telephone or in person."
"The new numbers indicate that previously, the government
significantly underestimated the number of individuals affected by
domestic and sexual violence in this country," said Tofte. "Authorities
should urgently adjust public policies, law enforcement, and provision
of support services accordingly."
Human Rights Watch is currently investigating and monitoring the
criminal justice response to sexual violence. The organization's recent
work includes investigating the backlog in untested DNA evidence
collected in rape cases in the US. In Los Angeles City and County alone,
there is a combined total of at least 13,000 untested sets of evidence,
known as rape kits, sitting in storage.
Human Rights Watch's national recommendations include:
The Obama administration should appoint a special adviser on violence
against women in the US; Congress should restore full funding to the
Office on Violence Against Women; The Department of Justice, through the
National Institute of Justice, should authorize comprehensive studies
that more accurately track sexual and domestic violence in the US,
especially among individuals who are least likely to be surveyed by the
National Crime Victimization Survey; Congress should increase funding
for sexual and domestic violence prevention, intervention, and treatment
programs; Congress should amend the federal Debbie Smith Act, a grant
program designed to eliminate the rape kit backlog, but that states can
and have used for other kinds of DNA backlogs; The US should ratify the
UN Convention on the Elimination of all Forms of Discrimination against
Women (CEDAW), which obligates states to prevent, protect against, and
punish violence against women.
http://www.hrw.org/en/news/2008/12/18/us-soaring-rates-rape-and-violence-against-women
Intimate violence
- About 1 in 320 households were affected by
intimate partner violence.
- Female victims are more likely to be victimized
by intimates than male victims. In 2005, of offenders victimizing
females, 18% were described as intimates and 34% as strangers. By
contrast, of offenders victimizing males, 3% were described as
intimates and 54% as strangers.
- The rate of nonfatal intimate violence against
females declined by nearly half between 1993 and 2001.
- Between 1976 and 2002, about 11% of murder
victims were determined to have been killed by an intimate.
- The sharpest decrease in number of intimate
murders has been for black male victims. An 81% percent decrease in
the number of black men murdered by intimates occurred between 1976
and 2002.
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